Baby On Board

Something that really gets to me lately is "adult content" and "adult speech" in the presence of children. I'm reminded of the "Baby On Board" stickers on cars that remind other drivers to be "extra careful" when passing or following. And those special window decals that would alert firefighters to pay special attention to a child's bedroom in the event of a house fire. The sentiment is the same..."please use kid gloves." There are innocents in the vicinity, those that may not be able to remove themselves from an ugly situation. Take our experience with "Joe the Barber" as an example. We went to a new barber this week because our dear friend and long time barber, Greg, was in a terrible car accident. It's unlikely that he will ever work again. Joe delivered a descent haircut, but my seven-year-old was subjected to a television station in his shop that carried a morning talk show (topic: gays) and nonstop Viagra commercials. I regret that I didn't intervene. Yesterday at the restaurant I noticed a table full of young men cursing, while parents with two young children sat at the next table, slumped down and uncomfortable. Why didn't I offer to move them? I'm often immobilized in these situations. Recently, we visited a relative to show off the old fashioned costumes we wear to church. Upon seeing the little ones, he asked, "And what's your other son wearing, a thong?" I half smiled when I should have jumped...Really??!! Why don't adults self censor in the presence of children anymore?