Thursday, September 29, 2011

Human Diversity



Since I work for a premium cellular provider, one might assume that the majority of customers who visit the store would fit into the top economic bracket of society. However, my customers come from all walks of life (every day I experience the proverbial "that's what it means to work with the public").

Take Francis. Homeless. Sells his things to the pawn shop and then brings his cash to the store to buy accessories and extended batteries. He has fashioned numerous custom covers for his Droid3. He carries an "Obama phone" in his other pocket. He showed it to me the other day.

I asked him if he'd ever invented anything else and he told me about the ideas he had had long before those same products appeared in the store. He used to fix TVs.

He's in his 60's I assume, with graying blond hair. Small in stature with a large red "something" growing on his nose. He wears a green army jacket and a heavy silver chain with a cross pendant.

Sometimes we struggle when others have world views that are so different from our own. This can happen on the job, in our families, and even in our own households. For example, WestBarreDad and I cannot for the life of us understand why our middle son doesn't see work that needs to be done and step up to do it - like dishes ("We weren't raised that way and we aren't raising him that way":). (Sears rescheduled the dishwasher repair AGAIN. It will be over a month until they can find a technician to visit our neck of the woods).

I'm reminded of the Casting Crowns song, "If we are the body." "Jesus paid far too high a price for us to pick and choose who should come", or which personalities, living situations, or opinions are the most valuable. Today I pray for patience with difficult customers, difficult family members, and difficult co-workers. Oh, and difficult national appliance retailers.

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

The Jerusalem Council


I was required to submit a paper yesterday for a graduate-level IT course I'm taking (Problem Analysis). After reading Drucker, Postman, Deming and other authorities on the topic of computer-age management and studying Kaizen, Six-sigma, and other predominant 20-th Century Quality Management principles, I was supposed to draw a process map (and then defend) my own problem-solving process.

One of our lectures concluded with the idea that "there is more than one way to skin a cat." In other words, all of these theories are great to put in your management "toolbox" but other theories will surely rise to the top of the American/International business popularity race for a time. No single theory has proven effective in all situations.

So I chose to go to the Word. What is the Biblical principal for problem-solving? I discovered The Jerusalem Council.
The name refers to a meeting of Christians and Jews described in Acts 15. Historically, these two groups held vastly different world views and in this instance, they were arguing over the act of circumcision.

A. Community Tension (15:1-2a). Christian teachers from Judea, having come to Antioch, teach that the Gentiles must be circumcised if they are to be saved. Paul and Barnabas vigorously disagree.
B. Initiation (15:2b-5). A delegation, including Paul and Barnabas, are sent to consult with the apostles and elders in Jerusalem. The delegation is welcomed in Jerusalem, make an initial report, and the issue is quickly joined as believers from among the Pharisees insist that Gentiles be circumcised.
C. Exploration (15:6-7a). (Interpretation I) The meeting begins with “much debate.”
D. Narrative (Story)
◦ Peter’s Story (15:7b-11). Peter breaks into the debate and reminds the meeting of the story of his Joppa vision and experience with Cornelius, Roman centurion, in which it had become clear that God had accepted the Gentiles. He challenges them by reminding them of their own story in which they themselves had been unable to bear the “yoke” that they now wished to place on the Gentiles. {8} He concludes by focusing the Jesus story. Salvation, for both Jew and Gentile, comes only “through the grace of the Lord Jesus.”
◦ Barnabas and Paul’s Stories (15:12). The assembly is silent as they listen to these stories of what God has done among the Gentiles through Barnabas and Paul.
C’. Correlation (15:13-18). (Interpretation II) James begins with Peter’s story and shows how the prophets agree.
B’. Resolution (15:19-29). James proposes the conclusion. The apostles and elders, together with the entire church, agree and discern that the Holy Spirit approves. The answer is formulated in a letter.
A’. Community Action (15:30-35). A delegation is sent with Paul and Barnabas to convey the message to the church at Antioch. They are well-received in Antioch, and the Antioch church rejoices at the news.

Over and over, the Bible emphasizes discussion and putting differences aside (before the sun goes down).

I also appreciate this lesson, based on Old Testament: Nehemiah, Proverbs and Jeremiah.

Photo: West Jackson Council

Friday, September 23, 2011

Breakfast With Yuko

My dear friend Yuko is visiting for one week. She has a lot to accomplish during her short time here: paperwork for her elderly aunt, meetings with The Office of The Aging and the lawyer, etc. We were able to squeeze in breakfast at a local orchard. They have is a little picnic pavilion nestled inside a peach orchard. We enjoyed apple pie, unpasteurized cider, raw milk cheese and shortbread cookies. Delicious! Our long conversation and the beautiful surroundings...what a blessing she is to me.

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

The Years The Locusts Have Stolen

I met with the counselor yesterday and the outcome of that meeting was completely unexpected. She said that a member of the family had called her secretary and "complained heartily" over the results of the past few months. Considering this reaction (and others), she observed that the group is not committed to moving forward and we shouldn't continue to try. She spoke briefly of a Bible verse and a prayer that might bring comfort. God promises to restore us even after the most devastating of circumstances: Joel 2:25 King James Bible And I will restore to you the years that the locust hath eaten, the cankerworm, and the caterpiller, and the palmerworm, my great army which I sent among you. I Will Restore the Years the Locusts Have Eaten Norma Miller July 13, 2011 I came to the Lord one day, said, 'Pray will You tell me'?
I am serving You now, but things weren't always that way.
I am wondering, what about all those years that I have just thrown away'? I will restore the years the locusts have eaten.
I will make beautiful the things of the past.
I will cause your fountains to bubble with joy, and I will make you a blessing. I will restore the years the locusts have eaten.
I will make your streams to flow in the valley.
I will cause you to refresh in the desert, and I will make you a blessing. I will restore the years the locusts have eaten.
I will make beautiful the things of the past.
I will cause your fountains to bubble with joy, and I will make you a blessing. All praise to my Jesus for He loves me!
He turns all my mourning right into joy!
He says, 'You may weep for one night, but joy comes in the morning'. I will restore the years the locusts have eaten.
I will make beautiful the things of the past.
I will cause your fountains to bubble with joy, and i will make you a blessing.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

There are only a few, but they're all MINE

This morning I experienced what I imagine every mother of small children anticipates...the morning ALL her children board the school bus and she is left to spend a few hours ALONE. School mornings haven't been easy. I've been sick, W suffers a meltdown every morning and vomits on the bus. There were no fewer than three calls on Friday from the school (one sick child, another needs his knee brace ASAP, another "dove into the bus." And I quote the school nurse). Yesterday the 4th child's homeroom teacher called to ask about missing paperwork. It gave me the opportunity to ask if all 8th graders were so "dizzy." Not only was he missing paperwork but he'd recently misplaced a TENOR sax. (REally??!! It's not the kind of thing that hides in the couch pillows.) So here I am. 7:30 a.m. There have been two calls from school already, Mrs. Preston wanted to OK the AP English reading list with me. W is threatening to vomit again. Counseling appointment at 10:00 a.m. No matter. I have a few hours of ME time and it's a beautiful Fall day with a cool breeze blowing. I'm going to mow (without anyone sneaking up along side). And work on my on line courses (without interruptions). And listen to Spanish music all day. Viva la soledad!

Sunday, September 4, 2011

A historic game


J, now in tenth grade, played his first varsity football game on Saturday following months of pain, physical therapy and doctor's visits.

He had been injured in June at NFL camp.

We traveled to inner-city Buffalo to watch him play. We were frisked upon entering the sports complex and we walked through metal detectors and rows of security guards.

It was thrilling to see him go in and agonizing to see him limp out after taking a helmet to the shin.

The other team was viscous and the refs were kept busy calling personal fouls.The Panthers' cheerleaders growled and meowed.

Our boys were disciplined and focused. We shut them out 25 to 0.